One of my friends keeps recycling her old relationships. She claims it’s strictly for the sex, but knowing her, I feel like it’s actually a deep rooted need for emotional attachment. My issue with the whole situation is she ends up with a painfully emotional breakup over and over again. It’s tiring for me and damaging for her. I wish she’d learn and take a step back from these dudes.
You know, learning from your mistakes and shit.
Does the fact that I am totally over picking up her pieces make me a shitty friend? She is only fooling herself when she claims that it’s only sex. I understand that it’s comforting to get it on with someone you are already comfortable with. The other side of the coin is that the relationships are very repetitive and end because she can’t keep herself emotionally detached. It’s a vicious cycle of self loathing that makes me avoid her phone calls when things start going downhill.
Single Harlot was a bridge burner. If things weren’t working out with one of my blowjob boys and I, it was done. There was usually a 2 blowjob leeway. Piss me off once when I’m sucking your dick and we can have a conversation about it afterwards. You can apologize and we can move past it. If it happens twice, I’m done with your dick.
Maybe it’s because of the nature of my relationships that I had few issues with my lovers letting me go. There’s one guy that I used to blow who still emails me looking for attention. I haven’t touched a dick in like 5 years, I think but I definitely haven’t touched his particular dick in at least 8. I’ve tried being nice to him and telling him I wasn’t interested…I tried being a cunt faced bitch to him…I tried ghosting him…Dude is just not getting the hint.
If I haven’t emailed you back in over 5 years I don’t want to talk to you anymore. Take the hint. The person you are banging doesn’t owe you anything. Should they be honest with you about how they are feeling? Yes, but if they aren’t, it’s whatever…fuck them. Move on.
I don’t even consider those people my exs though. Is it really an ex if it’s just a hookup?
What do you Peepz think? Do you recycle your ex partners? Do you count your fuck buddies as your ex’s?
Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter…as long as you aren’t that guy that won’t take the hint.
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