Penises are kind of weird. While women have to worry about their bodies being constantly compared to sexualized images from advertisements, television and movies- men kind of skirt by because nobody knows what a penis is supposed to look like.
If we thought porn was an accurate depiction of real life, we would assume everyone has a thermos sized dick that’s roughly the same color as the rest of their body. However this isn’t always the case, and sometimes men get a little anxious over it.
While we rarely have our dicks out on display, when we do it’s for really important reasons and we want to make a good impression. According to the recent British Sex Survey carried out by a newspaper called The Observer, one in five men are unhappy with the size of their penis and even fewer are confident about their ability to use it. Hmm!
This survey also revealed that only 33 percent of men are happy with their sexual performance, down from 55 percent just 6 years ago. Earlier this month we found out that Britons are having less sex in 2014 and their excuses ranged from money problems to the presence of pets in the bedroom. Could performance anxiety also be a problem?
Maybe people are having less sex because they’re worried about how they will perform. Well, Wayne Gretzky once said “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” Not having sex isn’t the solution to an unsatisfying sex life.
The general consensus is that size doesn’t matter and knowing how to please your partner is completely independent of the length and girth of your penis. To find out what it takes to keep everyone in a sexual relationship happy, sometimes you just have to talk about it.
An old girlfriend I had seemed to have a problem climaxing from vaginal sex alone. Initially I thought it was something I was doing wrong but rather than stress out over it, we simply talked about it. We decided we needed a bit more foreplay and a few well-placed toys to solve our problem.
From then on, while the relationship may have been doomed the sex was always good. That’s really all you can ask for in your 20s.
Image: August Ames in I Wanna Be a Motherfucking Porn Star by Brazzers
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