Every year I make promises to myself that I’m going to be a better person than I was the year before. I don’t necessarily adhere to my resolutions 100%, but I feel like if I’m starting out 2019 at point A and I’m able to evolve through to point Z come 2020, I’ve made strides and I’m OK with that.
Sexually, I’d really like to explore edging. Over the years of filming amateur porn I’ve let my ability to enjoy my climax deteriorate. I can cum in 45 seconds flat. It’s impressive and handy when I’m in a crunch for time, but I feel like there is so much more pleasure could be discovered if I was able to step back and let patience take the wheel.
I took to several social networking platforms and asked all of you what your sexual resolutions for 2019 were. The most frequent answers weren’t really surprising, but it was interesting to me how many of you are on the same page about your sexual wants and desires.
Nearly everyone that responded to my request said that they would love to have more sex. That’s far too vague for me though, so I started asking what type of sex everyone was looking to have.
That’s when things got interesting.
The most frequent answer I received was for threesomes. Lots and lots of guys are on the hunt for that magical porno infused situation of being the only dick in the room with two pussies available for fucking.
Exploring sexual fetishes was also pretty high on the response list. Some of you wanted to explore golden showers and flogging, while others were wondering about dipping their toes into the world of BDSM. A little kink never hurt anyone, as far as I’m concerned. Sharing your fantasies with your partner can lead to some fun adventures. If your partner isn’t receptive to your fantasies, there is also no harm in that. Sometimes imagining scenarios is better than actually living out our dreams.
A few people who responded really got me thinking about chemistry and wanting. They said that they wanted to accept themselves as sexual beings and not be ashamed for wanting sex. Peepz, that type of stuff is heartbreaking. I know I’m just an Internet Pervert, but believe me when I tell you it’s cool to want to be wanted…and to expect your partner to want you. I’m a big proponent of communication, and though conversations sometimes feel like pulling teeth, I think that airing out your differences can do your psyche a world of good.
One of the things that my wife and I did together over our Christmas vacation was feng shui/Marie Kondo our bedroom. We took all the furniture out, went through our belongings and only kept the things that make us happy. The result has been fucking amazing so far.
We’ve decided to officially embark on that Thirty Days of Intimacy challenge that I wrote about a few months ago and so far? It’s been so. much. fun. When you know you’re going to have sex every day, you’re more likely to experiment and try new things. If the position you’ve been fantasizing about doesn’t work out tonight, you can always try something else tomorrow. I feel as close to her as I did when we first started dating and it has really sparked so much joy into every aspect of our lives.
I’ll be sure to report back to my favorite Peepz in February once we’ve completed the challenge.
Do you have any sexual resolutions you’re going to aim for this year? Let me know about it in the comments or slide into my DMs on twitter
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