Little known Harlot fact….I either clench my teeth or open my mouth so wide that my jaw cracks when I’m cumming. Orgasms are super relaxing to me after the fact, but the buildup? That makes my entire body clench until I’m basically begging for a release.
I’ve recently started practicing yoga and meditating all over again. Since I’m already in that frame of mind, over the weekend I was researching ways that I could relax more and enjoy the entire wave of sexual please from beginning to end. I came across the Mind Body Green article linked below that talks all about being mindful during sexual encounters, whether you are solo or with your partner.
They suggest three tips that were super useful to me, so I’m thinking that if I share the wealth with you Peepz you will be able to experience the benefits as well.
1. Have a conversation with your partner(s) or yourself about how you’re currently feeling and what you’re in the mood for.
Talking is so critical. Sometimes I want to get pounded while I’m on all fours and sometimes I am in the mood for soft and slow missionary style sex. If you don’t communicate what you’re looking for, it’s going to be very hard for you and your partner to be on the same page.
2. During sex, reveal to yourself or your partner(s) what sensations you’re feeling.
Isn’t that why dirty talking is so fucking sexy??? I love to verbally hear what my wife is feeling in the moment that she is feeling that. Simple questions like, “What does that feel like?” or even explaining, “I feel like I’m on fire when you touch me like that,” can break down that third wall and bring you right into the present moment.
3. Check in with your breath.
This one is the hardest for me. Like I said before, when I’m trying to cum, my entire body clenches up. That includes my lungs. I hold my breath and have a very hard time being able to focus on both breathing deep and experiencing the pleasure at the same time.
I think I’m going to try and work these three tips into my masturbation habit. There’s no harm in trying and I’m always up for new sexual adventures.
What do you Peepz think about these ideas? Are you willing to work them into your own sex life? Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter.
Image: Peta Jensen in Yoga for Perverts by Brazzers
Source: Mind Body Green
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