I had a twitter conversation with someone a few days ago about penetrative sex. The man asked his followers if they could live without doing that particular sex act within their relationship. My answer was that I definitely could, and that I hadn’t had sex with a penis in over 6 years.
That’s when it hit me…
I haven’t had sex with a man in over 6 years. For a large portion of my adult life, I was chasing down cock like it was going out of style. Fucking was an art to me, and I was all about getting as much sexual attention as my body could handle. At that point, I was totally into it, but reflecting back I know that my focus was never on the orgasm, it was about the sex.
I think it’s a shame that there weren’t more men out there who were interested in making me cum. Their orgasm was their end goal, and they didn’t really care much if it happened while their dick was in my mouth or my pussy (or my butt or my hands…or even the soles of my feet for that matter). When people have sex, there are different things that they point their focus on.
Should the end goal of all sexual experiences be someone’s personal orgasm? Maybe…but what if the focus is singularly pleasure? Is there a need to climax if what you are experiencing feels that good?
Even within the communication beforehand…dirty talking Online or via text can be a fun activity all on it’s own. There have been plenty of times that the texting was good enough for me to cum. I didn’t actually want the other person to physically touch me, I just wanted the fantasy of their touch….the idea of what type of creative sexual scenario they would come up with.
In my own personal relationship, sexting is usually the appetizer. All day long, my wife and I will chit chat about all the filthy things we want to do to each other. When the day is done and we’re both home, sometimes we bang like crazy, but sometimes we fall asleep and cuddle. Sex is not always the end result. It’s the pleasure that we get from making each other squirm that is our actual end goal.
What about you Peepz? When you sext with someone, are you looking strictly for the physical sex or are you in it for the masturbation fantasy? Hit me up in the comments below with your answers or slide into my DMs if you’re feeling daring.
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