I’ve got a soft spot in my cold, little heart for the Kink community. My 18-year-old self was fresh faced and ready to take on the world one whip at a time. The only issue was that I didn’t realize that I didn’t HAVE to be into that particular type of play to be kinky until I was in my late 30s.
When you think about BDSM, what comes to mind?
It’s the hard hitting spankings, whips and chains, leather and latex. Bodies that are completely nude and covered in paddle marks, or covered from head to toe in leather and latex.
The beauty of the BDSM community is that everyone can have their own thing. The shame I used to have about not being able to take hits that were going to bruise me purple for days has dissipated. My thing is electricity and Violet Wands. I love the way that the energy feels when it’s flowing through my body. There’s no need for me to step outside of my comfort zone when I find experienced play partners who can turn up the juice and zap me to my heart’s content.
Back in the day when I was first being trained in BDSM, I was taught that you should never mix sex and BDSM play. While not everyone agrees with this line in the sand, it seems to be making a resurgence during the pandemic.
Let’s think about what the current stipulations are for most of the world with COVID-19 still making its way around.
- You have to wear a mask and make sure that your body is protected (Check…that’s definitely kinky and something I’ve done during BDSM scenes)
- You should physically touch anyone else (Check…that’s what paddles, floggers, whips, Violet Wands etc are for)
- You need to remain far away from other people
(Check…if I’m aiming for your ass with a 4 foot whip that puts our faces 6 feet apart) - You shouldn’t be meeting up with strangers who haven’t been quarantining themselves (Pseudo Check…I’m of the school of thought that you should definitely not play with people that you just met in a BDSM capacity, unless you’re at an event or have checked references or something of that nature)
So all of those boxes can be ticked off if you find yourself a BDSM play partner. Don’t feel comfortable fucking? Then don’t do it. You don’t need to have sex with another person in order to have an orgasm. My ideal situation right now would be to find someone who is really into latex. They could come over to my place and we’d hang out on my deck 6 feet apart until we made sure that we were cool with each other. When the day got darker and less people were around, we could have a bit of a VW Zap Session. Wands are way cooler when the lights are low anyway.
I would never have to come in physical contact with them. We could both get our rocks off in a BDSM capacity…and if we were feeling randy after the fact, a little bit of mutual masturabation never hurt anyone.
What do you Peepz think? Have you been considering BDSM play during quarantine or are you all about smashing naughty bits? Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter with the dirty details.
Source: NY Times
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