My fascination with anal sex goes back decades. At this point in my life, I’m completely content with watching incredible gaping assholes on Pornhub, rather than trying to gape my own. That -ish can get tricky.
Relationships are also very tricky. My wife and I are currently negotiating the dynamics of going back to being Poly. She’s been dating a few new women since we discovered the Lex app and I’ve been heavy flirting with some of my guy friends to test out the waters and see if dealing with dicks is even something I want to dive into again. Honestly, time is my enemy at this point in my life and I’m 100% focused on my career and writing. My wife didn’t slut around in her 20s and 30s like I did, so I’m vicariously living through her.
Communication is key to any relationship though. Lots of people slide into side pieces because they are afraid to communicate their wants and needs…or their partner is unwilling to participate.
The affair-centric dating website, Ashley Madison, took a poll of 2,625 members. Of those people, 52% said that the main reason for their infidelity was the fact that they could live out their sexual fantasies. That’s not as high as I would have imagined, honestly. Some people are ashamed of the things that they are into and don’t want to share their kinks with the people that they are closest with. I get it, but I think that the world would be a safer place is we could drop all of our sexual insecurities to the side in order.
Whatever though…I know we don’t live in an ideal sexual utopia and that people are going to cheat on each other. What was crazy to me was that of those Ashley Madison users that were poled, 28% said anal sex was their favorite kink. Another 17% chose role play and 15% chose orgasm delay (edging) as their fav kink.
Is anal sex kinky? I’m not convinced that it is. It seems fairly mainstream to me at this point. Here’s a Pornhub clip of Kissa Sins getting her back banged out for the good of our masturbation habits.
How do you Peepz feel about anal sex? Is participating in a buttsex romp on your t0-do list? Also, do you cheat on your partner or are you satisfied with your relationship?
Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter.
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Image: Angel Long in A Doctorate in Analsexology by Brazzers
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