As soon as I discovered sex, I became completely gluttonous with it. I tend to do that with things that I enjoy though. There is no gray area for me, I’m either completely down to be enveloped in a sensation or I’m over it.
In my early 20s, there were a few fantasies that I was interested in making come true. One of them was having a MMF threesome. The circles that I was running in back then made it hard to come by two men that were willing to bang each other and me, so I tabled that idea. I figued that I would get that itch scratched later on in life when I was having my midlife crisis. Here I am at mid-life and I’m a lesbian, so that’s not going to happen.
It’s OK though. There are more than enough dildos in the world to plug all my holes like I had imagined 20 years ago.
Having sexual regrets is totally common. Our ideas about what we desire evolve as we go through life. Some fantasies involve a specific time and place and what we did or didn’t have the balls to do.
In a recent interview, singer Toni Braxton opened up about her own sexual regrets. Namely, the fact that she did not have enough sex when she was younger.
The R&B phenom has been in the game for decades. Growing up, she was raised in a religious household so she was of the opinion that sex was not such a great thing for people who weren’t married. She’s aged like a fine wine though, and now she knows exactly what she’s looking for in a lover.
In the interview linked below she says:
I regret not having more sex when I was younger. I should have drank more. I should have partied more. Smoked more, even. I think my religious upbringing stopped me doing a lot of things that I should have done. It’s not a good look at the age I am now. The way it works is you do that stuff in your 20s and 30s and then in your 40s you’ve earned enough to pay for the therapy.
Here’s my fav Toni Braxton video from back in the day. I used to day dream about living in a penthouse apartment so that my friends and I could judge the hunky men that kept arriving in the elevator.
She also admitted to her Instagram followers that she uses a vibrator on her face. While she swears that she has never used it anywhere else, I know that if it was in my house I’d have a multipurpose device on my hands.
@voguemagazine Beauty SecretsSource: The Guardian
Image: Toni Braxton’s Instagram
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