How Many Is a Tough Question

From the time that I was 18 until I landed myself in a monogamous relationship nearly three years ago, I fucked a whole lot of people.

How many?

It’s a bit over 900 men and women combined.

While more women have ended up in between my thighs then men have, that’s only because there were a handful of all-female orgies that happened in my early 20’s. There was also that one year that I decided to ONLY have threesomes so that I could learn how to do it “right.”

This plan backfired terribly and I ended up having some of the worst sex of my life…but I shouldn’t complain about that, I guess. I still learned things…such as the fact that most couples that are looking to have a threesome shouldn’t because jealousy can result in awkwardness before, during and after.

It was also awkward when I was slutting around and people would ask my how many people I’d slept with.

If you say a number smaller than the person is expecting, they could think that you don’t have the experience necessary to please them. If you give a number that is larger, they are inevitably intimidated.

My truth makes most people uncomfortable…Lies make me uncomfortable, so I’d usually just avoid the question and give a non-answer.

I was reading an article on Ask Men that says that 10 people is the perfect answer to give when presented with the, “How many sexual partners have you had?” question.

I call shananigans.

You know what the perfect number is?

Whatever YOUR number is.

Sleeping with people isn’t about notches on the bedpost. It’s about feeling good and having a good time with the people that you are experiencing.

Still a virgin? That’s cool. If you have a penis make sure you practice masturbating with a condom on so that you don’t explode the instant someone touches you.

Working on a baker’s dozen? Excellent work, practice your oral sex skills.

Edging up towards the 100 person mark? Jazz things up and figure out a few new positions to try with your next partner.

I guess what I’m trying to say Peepz, is that your “number” doesn’t matter. If your partner’s number bothers you, have a conversation about it instead of getting upset. Jealousy and insecurity go hand in hand most of the time and conversation is key in all things.

Now to lighten the mood a little bit and get you masturbating (because nothing releases tension after a conversation better than a few orgasms), here’s a clip with tons of anonymous sex, orgasms and the most unique gloryhole situation I may have ever seen.

What do you think Peepz? Do you care about how many sexual partners your lover has had? Let me know in the comments below!

Source: Ask Men

Image: Nikki Benz in Office 4-Play VI by Brazzers

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