My wife and I will have been married for one full 365 day year the first week of May. Time has totally snuck up on us and so have the winter blues. We work on slightly different schedules (I’m up and at the gym at 4am, having to be in the office before 7. She gets up at 7:30 but doesn’t get home from work until close to 8pm.) and it has affected the amount of time that we spend sexing each other.
If I had to choose, I’d rather fuck right before bed. It winds me down and an orgasm or two relaxes my body into the sleepy submission that is sometimes hard to come by. Our issue is that, while we both get into bed at the same time (because that’s something that we feel is important), I’ll pass right out and she will stay awake for another few hours in order to read a book or fuck around on her phone. If she starts making moves on me, the likelihood that I’ll respond positively is kind of low.
Are you shocked? Don’t be.
I’m tired Peepz. Life is tiresome. And I am fully aware that is only an excuse.
The result of my redonkulous schedule four days a week means that we usually reserve the banging for the weekends. I was under the impression that it was better that way. Sex isn’t an orgasm rush job, it’s slow and steady and we’re both able to fully enjoy each other. I read an article last week that talked about having sex every day and it kind of exhausted me? Maybe that’s because I’m old enough to be shooting MILF movies.
Maybe it’s because my wife and I have slipped into a routine that was different than when we were first dating each other and fucking like rabbits all the time.
Either way, it made me realize that I’m doing nothing but passing the buck.
The reason why I don’t fuck every day is because I’ve gotten lazy.
Yes, I work 10 hour days. Yes, I’m at the gym every day around 4:30am…
I’m working so hard in other aspects of my life that sex, being sexy, and being involved in physical pleasure has been sacrificed….a whole lot.
It’s an inspiring article to read, honestly (it’s linked below). What if my wife and I started having sex every day again? What if we got back that intense physical connection that we had when we met. What if I was able to toss my need for sleep to the side and spend some quality time re-learning my wife’s body and how she responds to my touch?
I think those are excellent questions and I’m curious about the answers.
In the article, author Sam Gutierrez says that she feels less intimidated to speak up about her likes and dislikes. They are willing to experiment in the bedroom more because, even if the sex is awkward and doesn’t work out…they are going to be having sex again in 24 hours, so it’s really NBD.
I am motivated to bang. I think that this is one of those moments in life where I stumbled across an article that I needed to read at the exact moment that I needed to read it.
Let’s talk about the frequency that you end up making love, Peepz. I don’t care if you’re giving me actual sex with a partner numbers or if you’re talking about masturbation.
How often do you end up working physical pleasure into your schedule?
Let me know in the comments or, as always, get in touch on twitter if you’d rather go private.
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