What Does Sex Feel Like?

My twitter feed is filled with tons of sex positive people who have a lot of amazing ideas about feeling good. I was scrolling the other day and came across the post linked below by Girl on the Net as she answers the question, “What does sex feel like?”

I went through a creative exercise with a handful of my friends, but IRL and online while I was trying to come up with the words to define my own answer.

My best friend is a guy who goes by SinIsSir on Fetlife. He said:

Sex for me is all a mental game. How do I tap into this person’s energy and find the triggers and pull the triggers at the right time. If the person is open and willing then the ride is like waves in the ocean. It’s a wave of sexual energy and intimacy. the more the mind opens the bigger the release.

That’s totally on brand for him. It’s the mind game of control and energy flow that gets him off.

One of my twitter friends, who is also kinky, said something quite similar.

Sex feels different depending on the style of me. Unfortunately for me 90% of sex is mental for me so it depends. I’ve developed kinks & fetishes & can’t really keep an erection unless I’m doing them. When I find a woman willing to please me sex is beyond amazing. It’s better than money. When it comes down to regular sex, it’s a mental struggle for me & sex isn’t as fun.

I can totally get down with that. It’s wanting to feel wanted, right? Sex and passion are all about exchanging that type of energy and letting the people you’re playing with know that you desire them as much as they desire you.

One of my new twitter friends, who discovered me on Fetlife joined in the conversation by saying:

Okay so for me sex feels like a workout, working out the mind and body to reach that final goal of sploosh! Especially great sex that leaves you wanting more but also wanting to knock right out. Talking in tongues if able to talk at all. Like only a min or two has passed but you been at it for hours

Totally makes sense to me. It’s been so long since I’ve had the speech fucked out of me. Maybe it’s time to revisit a situation like that…

My friend Drew is eloquent in the way that he communicates….He explained:

It feels like warmth, being wrapped in a warm blanket when you are looking for intimacy. It also feels like coming out of a cage. freedom. It feels like for that one moment of, or multiple moments of climax that nothing else matters in the world. That the world could be crashing down, but you are stuck in the moment. like a bubble shielding you from anything negative going on around you

Umm…Yes, please. All of that. I want all of those feelings.

For me?

Sex is like a bomb. Flirting is the flame, the physicality of it is the fuse and the ultimate connection of having an orgasm is the explosion.

How about you, Peepz?

What does sex feel like to you? Be as descriptive as possible, because you know I love those dirty words.

Source: Girl on the Net

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