I lack the misogyny and predatory instincts that define conventional male gender roles in sexual encounters. Thankfully, the idea of gender roles in this day and age is on the way out and I don’t have to coat myself in pungent body sprays to pretend to be someone I’m not. According to a bunch of feminist brain trusts, this might make me the perfect man. SUP, LADIES?
A study published in a recent edition of Sex Roles, a scholarly journal that focuses on gender issues in society, asserts that when women take control in approaching men in heterosexual encounters, everyone wins.
The research backing this assertion was conducted at Yale, where scientists asked 357 women and 126 men about their sexual interactions. What they discovered is that the conventional, gender-defined setup where men approach and pursue women was a less ideal situation as far as sexual satisfaction and practicing safe sex.
The research indicated that when women take control sexually, both parties felt more confident in the bedroom. Additionally, participants who confirmed a preference for female driven sexual encounters were more likely to take condoms on their way out of the interview. This would strongly indicate that women becoming the sexual hunters it results in better, safer sex for everyone involved.
If you’re a man and you’re just so alpha that you can’t help being the straw that stirs the sexual coffee, by all means don’t try and be someone you’re not – just be sure you acknowledge your partners’ needs and to keep everything safe. Keep in mind, however, that when a confident woman approaches you and asks for a little bit of your time, science would suggest that it would be worth your while to sit back and let her take control. Fuck yeah, science!
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