Top 5: Best Sex Positions For Ladies To Get Off (With Videos!)

Lordy, lord, I spent yeaaaars having shitty sex because I couldn’t relax enough to enjoy it. I was always so concerned with how I looked and I how I was performing that I was constantly taking myself out of the moment and the pleasure of it all. I fear that a lot of women approach sex this way. It’s the way we’re conditioned to view our bodies and ourselves as never good enough.

I’ll bet you a hundred bucks that a good chuck of chicks who say they don’t like doing it doggy style say that because they don’t like the way their butts look and they’re afraid the guy they’re with won’t find them sexually appealing and won’t want to come back for seconds.

Men face some of the same issues. We all have our insecurities about our bodies and the way we’ll be perceived by the people we’re with. The sad part, besides the obvious self-esteem issue, is that we’re short changing ourselves by approaching sex this way.

Approach any sex act, whether it be something as vanilla as missionary or a particularly difficult sex position like the fire hydrant, with gusto and true pleasure without worrying about your performance or how your belly looks in that position and I’ll guarantee that you will enjoy yourself a hell of a lot more and so will your partner.

You gotta be a little selfish. If you want to get off, concentrate on the sex moves that will make you come by letting go of your insecurities and embracing your sexuality and those orgasms are sure to keep on coming. Obviously, this is a balancing act, but if your partner is doing the same thing, you’ll both be coming like there’s no tomorrow.

For the purpose of this top 5, though, let’s concentrate on sex positions that are known to get people with clitorises off. You’ll see a common theme: they allow for great clitoral access and/or stimulation.

5. Missionary 

I know, so boring, so vanilla, right? No. There’s a reason why missionary is the gold standard. It’s feels great and if your partner is entering you at a little bit of an angle or by making sure to keep contact and pressure on your clit with his body this position is sure to be a winner.

4. Reverse Cowgirl 

It looks cool and it allows for easy access to the clit. Heck, you could rub your own clit while your up there or you could grab your patterns hands and place them where you want them to be. No need to be shy. You gotta take control and be assertive if you want to get the big ‘O.’ No one is going to read your mind and give you exactly what you want. You gotta take care of yourself.

3. The Sideways Straddle/Thigh Master

Picture this: the dude lies down on his back, bends one knee, and rests the foot from the same leg on the bed. The owner of the clit turns her body as if going into reverse cowgirl position, but instead of putting one knee on either side of his body she straddle his upright thigh and lowers herself onto his penis. It’s a bit tricky to get all the right parts lined up, but once you’ve got it this position allows for maximum penetration and maximum clit stimulation, because as she’s going up and down and all around on that D she’s also grinding her clit on that upright thigh.

It looks like this:

 

It’s like tribbing, but there’s a penis involved. This position isn’t favored in porn, because it hides all the goods from the camera. It definitely feels heavenly, though. P.S. I hope you Peepz don’t need a diagram for the other positions.

2. Girl On Top (AKA Cowgirl) 

Girl on top does it all. It’s the best position if you want to control depth and motion. Lean back a little and you’ve got great clit access, lean forward a little and you can grind that clit against his body like you’re trying to start a fire from friction alone.

1. Doggy Style

Doggy Style is awesome, because it allows for penetration while giving you enough room to stimulate the clit with hands, vibes, magic… whatever. It’s a good one for multitasking and stimulating the g-spot.

Header: August Ames & Keiran Lee in I Wanna Be a Motherfucking Porn Star by Brazzers

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