Everyone gets busy, especially this time of year. The end of the year means that you’re trying to add extra hours into your already cramped schedule so that you can make everyone feel a little bit more appreciated. It’s easy to be exhausted at the end of the day and forget to appreciate your partner.
As I’ve settled into married life, I find myself craving actual sex a lot less. I love my wife and I love fucking her, but when you consider that we were fucking a few times a day when we first hooked up, and now we’re finding that we only have time to hook up a few times a week, it’s a drastic change.
I found an article on Well and Good that confirmed that everything is perfectly normal with the flow of my relationship. Even when we’re not bumping our pussies together, we’re still discovering new ways to be intimate with each other. The article lists three ways that anyone can rekindle compassion with their lover and the only reason that i’m talking about it is because I feel like all three things are easy to do and totally make sense.
One of my favorite parts of my day is snuggling into my babe’s back and making her my little spoon. Cuddling and being super close is comforting. I love the way our bodies feel when they curve into each other and cup every bend. Touching without sex being an ulterior motive can make you feel wanted and needed just as much as a good orgasm can.
The first time my wife and I went to the movies together, we saw Don Jon, that Joseph Gordon-Levitt movie about the guy with the porno adiction. When we were exiting the theater, I grabbed my wife’s hand to hold. She tells people that my initiation of hand holding is the reason that she fell in love with me. Science has uncovered the fact that holding hands can release oxytocin, which is the hormone that makes love possible…so maybe my wife is right, hand holding is a signal of intimacy.
The third way that the article suggests you stay intimate is by communicating specifically about your relationship on a weekly basis. It’s always good to have a check in and make sure that everyone involved is on the same page. The more frequently you do that, the better off everyone is. If you are headed in one direction and your partner is headed in another, it’s best to know at inception, rather than figuring it out years down the road with tons of regret about not opening your mouth in the first place.
Do you Peepz have any tips for being intimate without having sex? Let me know in the comments below or hit me up on twitter
Source: Well and Good
Image: Bridgette B in Intimate Seance by Brazzers
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