Sex and Lies: Science!

Back before I met my wife, I was running all over New York and New Jersey to find partners to fuck. My main goal every morning was to have sex. How I accomplished that task was sometimes dishonest.

There are ways that you can convince men to have sex with you. It only took a few minutes of conversation with some very specific questions to figure out if I was interested in fucking the person I was talking to and how exactly I would make that happen. Sometimes, that how required me to lie in order to become who that person needed me to be in that moment.

When sex is laid out on a platter in front of you, sometimes dishonesty creeps into the picture. One of the reasons why I honestly feel like I ended up with my wife was because I never had to do that with her.

New research that has been led by the University of Rochester in New York and the Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya in Israel reveals that the deceitfulness may actually be the norm. The paper is called Making the right first impression: Sexual priming encourages attitude change and self-presentation lies during encounters with potential partners and that basically sums up the research.

When we are trying to bang, we want to impress the people that we are spending our time with. That’s how you make the magic happen, right? You find someone that you click with and you crave being exactly what they need. We want to fit together like puzzle pieces and get together with like minded individuals as much as we possibly can. The way that you present yourself, your best self, to new companions is completely natural. Is it a lie if you invite someone over for the first time and your bed is completely made with new sheets? Are you the type of person that makes your bed every morning? While not actively lying, you are presenting something that is not completely honest.

I don’t think there is anything wrong with trying to be better in order to impress people when sex is involved. You can totally do it on your own, by being yourself, but if you need to embellish slightly to ensure that you end up knee deep in orgasms, I don’t see any harm in that.

What do you Peepz think about stretching the truth in order to hook up? Have you ever gotten fucked because you were dishonest? Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter with your sexy stories.

Source: Medical News Today and The Journal of Experimental Psychology

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