Back in the day, I invited one of my Xtube friends from Georgia up to Jersey to spend the weekend fucking me. He was younger than I was by about 5 years and online, he was rip roaring and ready to go. When he ended up in my house though, he was having issues performing.
I genuinely liked him as a person, so I would have been totally fine with sitting on my couch and watching South Park. He was not cool with it at all though, so he spent most of the weekend being angry. At first he blamed the fact that I wasn’t “sucking his dick right,” so in normal Harlot fashion, I asked him to explain to me how he liked having his dick sucked. Mutual masturbation is one of the ways I’m able to pick up some tips and tricks on how my partners like to be touched, so we tried that.
Nothing…
I finally got him hard by slowly running my finger up and down his shaft while we watched some porno. As soon as I put a condom on him though, he shrunk right down to flacid. Stage fright had taken over this poor guy’s brain and he was never going to be able to cum.
He couldn’t deal with it, so I ended up dropping him off at the airport a full day early and we never spoke again. To me, it seemed like a waste of a good time. There was plenty of fun that we could have had with each other that didn’t necessarily involve orgasms…or him getting hard at all.
On the opposite side of the spectrum, there are plenty of men who can get hard, but can’t ejacualte. In the Guardian story linked below, the author talks about how he has had trouble cumming ever since he lost his virginity.
He says:
At 35, I discovered the term traumatic masturbatory syndrome online. I think this is at the root of my problems; my early experiments with masturbation may have reduced the nerve function in my penis. I also worry that my 5in penis is smaller than average. My first girlfriend told me it was inadequate, and in my 20s, another girlfriend laughed about it in front of several mutual friends at a party.
I feel like I can relate to his troubles in some aspects. I used to masturbate 15-20 times a day on average. As I’ve grown older, the sensitivity in my pussy has definitely decreased. Now, rather than my wife’s fingers being able to bring me to orgasm, it always takes at least a vibrator, if not a vibrator and a dildo (or a fist).
When we’re young, sometimes we take sex and pleasure for granted and fill our lives with it a bit too much. Being a glutton for pleasure can be so fucking enjoyable in the moment, but edging our sexuality through the years, like we can our individual orgasms, can sometimes be more helpful for lifelong enjoyment.
Source: Guardian
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