Do Men Cheat More Than Women?

I know I’ve talked about this before, but my wife and I are polyamorous. She’s actively looking for other women to date, and the Lex app that I spoke about a few weeks ago is really helping her along on her adventure. The issue that she’s running into is with the men that the women she’s dating are in relationships with.

I totally understand that our relationship is special. She can talk to me about making out in the back seat of her car with another woman and I don’t have an issue with it. Does it make me feel jealous? Sure, sometimes it does…but I tell her about those feelings too and it helps us work through them.

She’s really into this one woman right now, but that chick’s boyfriend is being a Debbie Downer about the fact that the two of them are having a good time. He gives his girl shit if she comes home happy, but in the same breath says that it’s cool that they date other people. I have some theories about why this keeps happening, even in my previous relationships.

Mentally and emotionally, women invest in relationship (regardless of context) faster than men do. We crave a well-rounded connection. In my experience with heterosexual relationships, men aren’t necessarily looking for much more than a physical connection outside of their primary partner. If their partner isn’t willing to “keep up” with them sexually, they go elsewhere for that one, specific need.

Do I think that men cheat more? I totally do. When women are in relationships with men and they stray, they are often looking for the loving attention that can be provided by another person. Men are looking for a hole to stick their dick into. We’re built differently…and that’s OK.

A new study by the BBC uncovered that men are 16% more likely to believe that cheating on their partner is acceptable. I think that’s an interesting tidbit of information. Society has molded our minds to believe that we must be monogamous for our entire lives. If we start feeling that we want to be with other people for whatever reason, rather than discussing it and hurting people’s feelings, we just do what we want to do in secret.

Polyamory isn’t for everyone, I totally get that. Even within poly relationships, not everyone is OK with being as open and honest with their partner as I am. Relationships make us vulnerable and that is a feeling that is hard for most people to wrap their heads around. Communication and honesty in all things though, Peepz…even if some feelings get hurt along the way.

Here’s a Pornhub clip from She Will Cheat to negate everything that I just talked about, but it’ll get your dick hard so it’s fine.

Source: Independent

Image: Ava Addams, Missy Martinez & Erik Everhard in Cheater Cheater Pussy Eater by Brazzers

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