Back in my Xtube days, I remember getting into a rather pompous, heated discussion with someone about the word “fetish”. The Oxford Dictionary states that the definition of fetish is, “A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc”. People tend to toss the word around without actually knowing the definition.
Fetish has come to mean, “something that I like,” rather than, “something that I need”. That’s how language works.
My twenty-something self was convinced that I had a true fetish. I was not able to achieve orgasm unless something very specific was done to me. That made me special and, by proxy, “better”.
All of that is honestly a bunch of bullshit. This is definitely not the case with all fetishists, my “nearly-forty” self understands that younger Harlot NEEDED to feel unique and so I convinced myself that I needed that behavior in order to cum.
The definition of words evolves over time, as do people and nature in general. I didn’t understand that in my twenties.
Ahhhhh, youth!
A Pleasure Party company in the UK called Killing Kittens polled an obviously scientific number of people and came up with this list of the Top Ten Fetishes in the UK. Here’s what they compiled:
| BDSM 16% Feet 5% Exhibitionism 4% Restraints 4% Group Sex 4% Latex 4% Shibari Rope 3.5% Voyeur 3.5% Leather 3% Threesome 2.5% |
There’s nothing crazy or outlandish going on her. Most of it is what you would expect. I think that BDSM has the highest chunk of the percentage because it’s a catch all for kink. Restraints, Shibari Rope and even Leather are all part of BDSM as a whole.
What do you Peepz think about this list? Do you think that anything is missing or are you surprised by any of the kinks listed?
Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter for some one-on-one conversation.
Source: Metro UK
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