Give yourself a swift spank on the rear, Peepz. Today is World BDSM Day! Since I’ve been fascinated with the world of kink for so long, I figured we could talk about some of the finer points of D/s today.
First, the basics in case some of you Peepz aren’t privy.
BDSM can stand for a few things, depending on who you are talking to. The words bondage, dominance, discipline, submission, sadism and masochism can be tossed around liberally like parmesan cheese on pasta. I make the distinction by using BDSM when I’m talking about bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism and the term D/s for when I’m talking about Dominance and submission. It’s up to your preference.
Within BDSM there are fetishes or kinks galore. Some people are into impact play, which means that you either like hitting people or being hit. The impact of the toys (floggers, paddles, ratan canes etc) can create some amazing marks. Is it painful? Sometimes. The neat thing about proper BDSM is that you can gauge how intense the sensations are with the pressure of the hit.
Clothing is a big part of BDSM culture. Leather and latex are high on the list of wardrobe wants within the scene. My personal love for fishnets, stockings and garter belts came from all of the time that I spent inside D/s parties looking for kinky things to do with my body.
Besides the whips, chains and handcuffs that everyone associates with BDSM, there are some other fetishes that are very close to my heart. In D/s circles, I identify as an electro slut. I love the stinging pain of Violet Wands, TENS units and other shockingly pleasurable devices. Medical play, knife play, cupping and fantasies like consensual non-consent are all kinks that my friends and I have shared with each other.
For a visual representation of how sexy kink and rough BDSM can be, here’s a clip of Abella Danger getting tied up and twisted. She gets crazy cum drunk in every position. Wait till you see.
BDSM may not be for everyone, but the kinship of the community is undeniable. You won’t find a group of people that speaks more vocally about safety, consent and communication than kinksters all over the globe.
Have you ever been interested in BDSM? Today is the day to let your kink flag fly! Slide into my DMs on twitter with you fantasies and I’ll tell you some of mine.
Image: Lauren Phillips in BDSM Confidential by Brazzers
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