I get off with sex toys nearly every day of my life. Could I use my hands to rub one out? Of course…but most of the time I’m looking for an intense sensation that would give carpal tunnel if I attempted manual manipulation.
During sex, a lot of the guys that I’ve fucked have been intimidated by my vibrator use. They never understood why I needed “more” than just their dick…and that’s why most of the men that I fucked in my life never made me orgasm. If I knew then what I know now, I would have slept with a whole lot less folks.
Everyone deserves to feel the pleasure that they are looking for in sexual situations. If that means that you like the way it feels when someone dips their tongue into your butthole while they’re stroking you off, so be it. Next time, maybe try a vibrator.
Sex toys are welcome additions in my bedroom. From rope to my trusty Hitachi, every extra sensation only adds to my pleasure. When my partners are strapped up and fucking my, it makes me cream instantly when they ask, “Can you reach that vibe over there?”
In the article linked below, the author talks about the “pleasure gap,” which is the significant lack of orgasms between folks in queer relationships vs. those in heterosexual ones….I’m looking at you ladies. So many of my male partners didn’t understand that they had to put in a little bit more effort than just giving my pussy the old in/out, in/out in order to make me get off. I can’t even explain how much time I’ve wasted sucking dick hoping that the man in my mouth would return the favor or at least give my clit some action while he was pounding away.
It didn’t seem to matter how assertive I was, or how many times I asked…the guys that I ended up in bed with couldn’t be bothered to pay attention to where it counts…right on my fucking clit.
I think that it’s time that guys give up the ghost. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to please your partner in a way that they enjoy. If your lover likes playing with toys, get some! If they come with their own kit of tricks, ask them if you can have a look inside to experiment.
Using bedroom accessories will only open the floodgates of passion more than they already are. There’s no reason why you should be intimidating by a vibrating stick that takes a few batteries.
Do you like using sex toys with your partner? Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter for some special recommendations based on what your partner enjoys.
Source: Inside Hook
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