Sexual Attraction

Where does our sexual attraction come from?  What is it about specific people that make our stomachs do flip flops and turn our genitals into throbbing parts of our bodies?  For some people, it’s a specific body part (like boobs) but for others its a type of perfume that they wear.  For me?  It’s got to be the whole package. 

I knew that I was specifically attracted to women when In Living Color was airing episodes.  The Fly Girls drove me crazy.  I didn’t understand what I was feeling back then, but now I know that it was all about hormones and sexual energy coursing through my body.  If you take a look at my current lover, my ex wife and my girlfriend prior to marriage, You can definitely notice a rather butch physical mystique about them.  My ex wife is actually not at all butch, but her physical appearance will have others guessing differently.  

I’m a fan of great legs and fantastic personalities.  I also love tattooed skin and vulnerable hearts.  Kink, or at least the willingness to be kinky, is fairly high on that list too.  Mostly though, I love intelligence and being able to have conversations about random things. 

Sometimes I think that my sexual attraction has a lot to do with who I see myself as.  I get that sentence may come off as a bit narcissistic, but it’s the truth.  My friends are all very smart people.  Most of my partners are even more intelligent that I am because you literally are the company that you keep.  As much as I enjoy the look of a slinky femme woman in lingerie, physically I want the rugged woman who isn’t afraid to man-handle me into submission.  

Overtime, my tastes have definitely changed.  Back when I fancied myself bisexual, I was into needy men who happened to be overweight and unemployed.  I’m not sure why that kept happening, but it did.  I think that it was my maternal instinct kicking in…like I wanted to save them and prove to them that they were better than the world (including themselves) thought that they were. 

I want to talk to you a bit about what types of things you are sexually attracted to?  What really gets your blood flowing and keeps your body filled with desire?  

Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter with your thoughts.  I can’t wait to hear what really gets you going.

Source: The Atlantic

Image: Sovereign Syre in Inexplicable Attraction by Brazzers

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