In days pre and post COVID, I enjoyed a healthy appetite of public sex and kink parties. While actual sex parties were never really my bag, I always appreciated the them. I’ve attending my fair share of orgies, but BDSM was where I got my rocks off. Zero shame to those of us who are into slutting it up behind closed doors with an intimate group of friends.
Women’s Health has a few tips for folks who are interested in attending such scandalous events so I wanted to drop that bit of knowledge on my favorite Peepz.
Setting my boundaries beforehand is really important to the experience, IMO. Do I feel like having a train run on me? Am I only looking for makeout partners? Is there a same sex encounter that I’m craving? Having a general idea of what I’m looking for always makes it much easier for me to focus on the task at hand. Walking into these situations without a clear boundary as far as what is Ok and what is not can make saying yes (or even no) to experience harder. Boundaries are healthy. Remember that.
Bringing a friend is usually a good idea too. When you’re walking into any kind of adult themed situation, whether it be a swinger’s party, BDSM club or even a kink convention, your senses can get completely overstimulated. Your partner/friend/lover/internet pal that you decide to bring with you can put your mind at ease and get you more comfortable with the scene at hand.
When you decide on who to bring with you to the party, have a conversation with them about some rules and expectations. Do you want you partner to stay by your side the whole time? If you want to have some alone time, maybe you come up with a code word beforehand to get some alone time without being obvious. Or you could be the type of communicator that says something like, “Listen, I wanna fuck that other person, so scram and find someone to bang on your own.”
I feel like that’s what I would say.
A toy bag is always my go to when I’m playing in public. As long as the place you’re going to allows it, having your very own toys on hand is the safest way to play when you’re getting down with accessories. Wrapping them up in condoms and being safer about the sex that you’re having (even if it’s with inanimate objects) is totally the way to go.
Knowing the rules of the event before you attend is SO IMPORTANT! Some places require safer sex practices at all times…that means condoms and dental dams for even partners who are fluid bound. Some places only allow a specific number of people in a fuck session at one time (to avoid mob scenes etc) but other places are totally fine with 100 guys wanking it around one greedy pussy.
In my opinion, the most important rule of any sex party situation is making sure that your STI tests are current. If you’re going to be banging multiple partners, you’re going to want to make sure you’ve got a clean screen under your belt. No one likes it when you bring crabs to a party.
Have you Peepz ever been to a sex party? What is one thing you wish someone had told you before you went? Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter with the dirty details.
Source: Women’s Health
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