Most of the people I’ve fucked over the years have made comments about how loud I get when I’m getting fucked. I’m going to be heading back into apartment living soon, which means thinner walls…which means less noisy sex. Possibly…I have to make decision about whether or not I care about my neighbors knowing that I have an extremely active sexual appetite or not.
In my truest form, when there’s no one around but me and my vibrator, I’m moderately loud with my moaning during masturbation. There will be lots of gasping and heavy breathing of all sorts. I don’t dirty talk to myself, though I’ve tried it a few times. I save that creative side of myself for when I’ve got a partner in the room. When my new girlfriend and I had a conversation about how vocal I get, I realized that I tend to say a lot of the same things.
I don’t scream when I’m talking, but I will moan VERY loud when my pussy is being stretched to maximum capacity. If she’s got her fist wrist deep inside me, and I’m bent over with my head in a pillow, you’re still going to hear me begging her to penetrate me more/harder/deeper.
That’s the way I roll.
I like vocally communicating my pleasure with my partner while we’re in the midst of things. Some of my past lovers have hated it and gagged me to shut me up, but I think it’s all a form of sexual expression. Whether I’m dirty talking, moaning, or trying to keep my voice to a whisper because my ex wife is fucking her own girlfriend in the room next door, I think my volume depends on my audience.
Solo, I can just focus on the feelings that I’m providing myself with.
Partnered, I focus my attention on both the way that I am feeling and the way that my partner is reacting to the way that I’m reacting to them. My new girl doesn’t talk much, but when she’s about to cum her breath changes and she’ll let out a primal grunt of release. I love it. She doesn’t seem to love or hate the way I talk to her while we’re banging…but accepts my mood as it is.
Not having any expectations about how I’m supposed to “perform” in bed is a nice change of pace. My ex didn’t care much, but the men that I fucked in my past life definitely did. I think that’s where I developed my habit of dirty talking while I was getting off.
My question to you, my favorite Peepz, is…Do you talk dirty when you’re fucking? Do you moan at the top of your lungs and scream when you’re cumming? Or do you silently take your pleasure as it comes and keep the volume low?
Let me know in the comments below or slide into my DMs on twitter. I’d love to hear all about it.
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