Sexuality and relation ship coach Pamela Madsen wrote an article on The Huffington Post, “The REAL Female Orgasm Comes Down to This,” saying that the real female orgasm is desire.
What fresh hell is this, you say?!
Apparently, Madsen has uncovered the mysteries of female sexuality (you know, because that shit is soooo complicated). Basically, forget working on your skills or learning everything you could possibly learn about pleasuring the clitoris, because the only thing that matters is showing the lovely lady you’re with how much you desire her.
I know, I know, it might sound like magical thinking, but really all you need to do to give your lady the best orgasm evah is show her you really, really fucking want her.
Show her that she inspires desire in you. If she can’t feel your desire, she will probably not be inspired to have sex with you.
Women want you to really want them. How can you show her that you desire her? Use all your tools. Your words, your presence and attention, your actions, and your body.
Do you think you have her already? Put that idea on the shelf. Women are filled with shifting energy.
They need attention.
Show her that you care about her pleasure.
Silly ladies, they need attention, but they also have a short attention span, so you’ve got to tell them how much you want them on a regular basis. Every hour should do, but when you’re getting down make that every 30 seconds.
Bitch, please.
To be fair, expressing desire/feeling desired plays an important part in everyone sexuality. Being present with your partner and expressing your desire is definitely going to have a positive effect on your sex life, but for the love of sweet baby Jesus don’t start thinking that desire is all you’ve got to bring to the table.
Desire isn’t going to make anyone spontaneously churn out the orgasms. That’s a fact. Although, if there is someone out there who can have orgasms from desire, I’d like to meet them.
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